Spaving

I have to publicly thank my friend for teaching me this word. It has altered the way I shop. The definition of spaving is to spend money in order to save money. It applies to all of those amazing deals we see in the store that tell us we are saving x amount of money when we buy a product, yet we still have to buy the product in order to save. So we spave.

It has really made me re-think each time I go shopping. Am I only buying this because it is on sale? I have known about the word for about a year now and my spending habits have already changed. It is hard to justify spending when I know that in the end I am only spaving.

One of the stores that always can get me to spave is Smith's (called Fry's in AZ). I don't often shop there but when I do I always tend to leave with more that what I went in for. They have deals right when you walk in the door that just always seem to be killer deals. I love getting all the snacks, cake mixes, drinks, etc from there. If you buy 10 you get a great deal. I spave! I'm slowly getting better about not being so tempted but I still have my moments.

Is there anything that you readers spave on? I'd love to hear and know that I'm not the only one. :)

Little Nate

Kendrick is no longer my baby but instead my little man. He is so much like his Daddy that sometimes I wonder if I will ever see any of me in him. Today while walking to the park we were holding hands and he kept rubbing his thumb on my wedding ring. Nathan does the exact same thing. In fact sometimes he will use my finger nails to tickle his hands. My little boy is growing up to be just like Daddy and what a magnificent man he will be!!

New Birthday tradition

We have yet to have a paycheck with Nate's new job. It has been doable but it has also meant that Birthdays needed creativity this year with zero money. I was hesitant to promise Nathan cinnamon rolls because if made wrong than they are not worth all the effort. I decided that a Birthday was a good enough excuse to take on the challenge and I was quite pleased I did.

They held up on the next day softness test. I was so pleased that I will be making it a tradition for all Birthdays in our house. However because of the time they take to make I will probably only make them the Birthday week and not the exact day. 

Blessings

Moving to Arizona has been more of a blessing than I could have imagined. It has been everything I needed without even knowing I did. I have been so blessed with the people we have already met. I have felt the Saviors love and have been able to prioritize my life a little better.

Before moving here I had prayed about making friends. It was just something I was really worried about because I tend to be shy and a home body. I am happy to say that my prayers have been exceeded. They were answered above and beyond what I imagined. 

I am so glad that the Lord knows more about what I need than we know ourselves. I love that through others I can feel his love and know that this life is supposed to be enjoyed. I look forward to the many months ahead knowing that whatever comes I have the Savior to rely on. 

Words

Nathan was fortunate enough to finally start training this week and get his schedule. He has been working 10-12 hour shifts and it is quite an adjustment after having him around for the past 2+ weeks. I have to mentally prepare myself to have him start working again. He is pretty excited about it but I am still slightly sad to not have my bf around all the time.

This week I have kept myself busy by cleaning, swimming, and meeting new people in the ward. It is quite an adjustment from our other ward. While I loved Utah, Arizona (any state for that matter) just seems to be much friendlier. We are almost guaranteed to be waved at if we step out our front door. Neighbors will actually introduce themselves, and we are feeling quite welcomed.

We are not social people and we mentally have to try really hard to schedule in getting to know other people. It has been a easier thing to do than I imagined. I already have more numbers in my phone than I thought I'd get in months. It is fun to feel so welcomed. I just hope we can develop the skills to do the same with others that move in around us.

Have a sparkly afternoon!

Temple Sealing

The happy couple sealed for time and all eternity!

My 2 loves in front of my favorite Temple :)

We had the opportunity to go to Nathan's Dad and Cindy's sealing. We drove 23+ hours in about a 38 hour time frame. I was hesitant to take Kendrick. In fact I had decided not to go until a few minutes before Nathan was leaving and I realized I just couldn't miss out.

Kendrick was a angel baby. His love for outdoors helps him riding in the car and being able to look outside the entire time. We didn't have a single problem. Our car held up and our little boy let us travel back and forth quickly. He exceeded my expectations. He would either sleep, eat, or snuggle his blanket. Our car gets fantastic gas mileage so we really didn't have to stop more than once and Kendrick didn't seem to mind. My mommy heart is still in shock over his traveling.

The sealing was beautiful. I am so glad that I did not let the fear of traveling keep me from going. Cecil was extremely sick but he was a good sport and was luckily able to make it through the sealing. It was their 12th year wedding anniversary so it was neat seeing them make another commitment on the day they were married.

I was a little surprised to return to Utah and feel like my home is in AZ. I did not expect that feeling to happen so quickly. It felt great traveling back to Arizona. I know that even without a lot of family close by that this is where we need to be. This is where our story needs to happen for a time. I hope to visit Utah often but Arizona is now my home.  

Some thoughts from AZ

I feel like it has been a month sense writing last. We are still without internet but it should be plugged in tonight and I can post this. It has been a slight adjustment not having internet but I have loved every minute. We are been so busy that the only time I really notice we don’t have it is when Nathan needs to check his e-mail and has to get in the car and drive somewhere to do it.

We just about have our house d-grimed. It was pretty nasty and took so much longer than I expected but I think we are coming to an end. There are still some walls and baseboards that need scrubbing; we didn't get to them before we sprayed for bugs and now I’m worried the bug killer will come off if I scrub them. Our vacuum is no longer working other than the hose so if anyone has a recommendation on what we should get I’d love to hear. So far I’m not too impressed with any that I’ve looked at.

Kendrick is adjusting well. After talking to a friend I’m pretty sure that he was not only teething during our traveling but also had roseola. Basically they have a really high fever for a few days and then it breaks out into a rash. I am amazed at how well he handled it all.

We checked out one of our community pools today. It was so much fun. It feels like we are just vacationing here. I really do love the heat when I am in any air conditioned building for too long. As long as it stays below 110 degrees I don’t think I will mind living here.

2 things that are very new to me are lightning and dust storms. We had a lightning storm on Saturday and I was blown away by how much lightning there was compared to Utah. There was so much lightning that it was like being at a party with strobe lights. It lasted for over an hour and I was awe struck. It was beautiful but kind of scary to drive in. The dust storms are almost as scary. We keep receiving text messages warning us about dust storms in the area and to stay inside until a certain time. I didn't even know our phone could do that. I have also seen warning signs on the freeway that say dust storm area.

Even though it gets windy with the dust storms and occasionally rains it is still pretty warm outside. It doesn't cool everything off like I’m used to. It just kind of pushes the heat around and stays as hot as it would without the rain. It will probably take my brain a little while to register that rain does not equal coldness.

I am loving life right now and all the new areas that there are to explore. I am very fortunate to have my best friend with me. I am so proud of his efforts in getting licensed and taking on the adventure of a new state. Even  with the stress of waiting for paperwork to get completed I love that he has been nothing but positive and supportive. I am one lucky gal!

Talk to y’all soon!

Make me smiles

Cleaning bleach mask (My tile floors are now glowing thanks to this man and his mask)

Daddy made the BEST fort in the entire world using almost all of our boxes.